I’m home!

EDIT:

 

What do you most enjoy, or miss, about being single?

 

Previously, with other men, I’ve been moaning the loss of freedom. That is a big reason why it probably didn’t last. I’m a committed and devoted person, but I’m also single minded when pursuing something, and more often than not that something have nothing to do with/does not involve my significant other. I find it stupid to have to call everyday or text every hour. What else is there to say? Life doesn’t change much in less than 24 hours! I don’t cling therefore I don’t like clingy men. I don’t like drama. The harder my partner tries to pin me, the more frustrated I become and the more I rebel, leading to arguments and finally the ultimate “I-can’t-be-bothered-with-this-crap-anymore” showdown.

 

But right now?

 

None.

 

I’ve wise up and date a completely different kind of man. Living an hour apart means we have our time to be our old self while enjoying each other’s company on the weekend. It feels so, so good. I need to be given room to breath and my own time for my own things (my hobbies, my friends, my hang outs) that doesn’t involve my significant other in any way. Thankfully he’s not the controlling type, he keeps an eye on me and on what I do but I pretty much run lose and do whatever I feel like doing, as long as I don’t toe the reasonable line. Most importantly he is supportive of my ambitions and possible career move. I think this has a lot to do with him being very secure about himself and this relationship and trusting me 100%.

 

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So having been said that, I just came home from a relaxing weekend, and I’m annoyed!

 

I came home to happily find out that I have been tagged to do a 10 things you hate from Life’s Roller Coaster. With ultimate glee on a chance to do meme again, I set out to painstakingly type my entry. Being a cautious person I have to save drafts as I type it. And whaddya know, just as I clicked “Save Draft” on my Windows Live Writer my laptop went berserk.

 

It decided that it would be fun to reboot me and watch as I gape, horrified at this cruel joke.

 

So laptop, I know I’ve been neglecting you since Friday but I came back today, on Monday morning! My stubby sexy fingers are always tapping and caressing your sexy black keypads, so why why why are you throwing tantrums now? No matter how much I love Hero, I can’t possible tap away on his head and press his nose to click a “Submit” button. I love gazing into his eyes but I cannot read my favourite blogs from it. He’s a darling but he’s not going to stay up all night with me to do my assignments for me and print it out of his mouth.

 

See how important you are. I love you, why can’t you just believe that? Why do you have to go manic on me and sulk and shut down all of a sudden? Aren’t we blogging partners? You know I can’t blog without you!

 

Look what you’ve done! You’ve wiped out a whole entry that I have ached my brains to think for the answers!

 

Oh, we are SO going to have drama, you and I. We’re taking this outside, oh yeah we are…

 

Right after I blog, of course.

 

I’ll have to apologize to cbenc. I’m going to post up my entry to your tag in my next entry because *dirty looks at laptop* well, you know why. Thanks for tagging me!

 

So now I’m home with a wayward laptop and a week’s load to handle. Don’t you just despair Monday?

 

Off to read 3 days overdue blogs in my reader!